Showing posts with label book review. Show all posts
Showing posts with label book review. Show all posts

Monday, December 12, 2011

If Love's So Nice… Why Does It Hurt by Jennifer Mamby Alexander M.D.

On March 24, 2011, The Book Industry Association of Jamaica named If Love’s So Nice… Why Does It Hurt by Jennifer Mamby Alexander M.D. as the winner of the Best Adult Non-fiction book of 2011. This was actually the Reader's Choice Award for the category. I'm have shared in a few too many heartbreak chats with my girlfriends so my interest peaked.

Clearly written for women, the book isn't a failure. I would have, however, found it much more interesting when I was 20 years old... or maybe even 25. The point is, grown women will should already know everything in this book. Nevertheless, the book is mildly amusing and a very, VERY easy read.

I'm still contemplating whether this book was worth my money and it has taken me weeks to finish this review because I want be as fair as possible to the author and represent the thoughts that any reader could have. Although fairly amusing, I think most of us have already decided how to classify men though a reminder can't hurt.

If I could back in time, I would read the book again. After all, I finished it in one sitting while at the hairdresser. (Hint hint – A good hair salon book). However, jaded by my experience as a publisher, I would highly recommend changing the paper quality and selling the book at a lower cost.

Worth noting is the chapter related to cancer and how it can affect a relationship. This sudden shift in topics was somewhat jolting and confusing. Still, knowing that the author previously wrote and published A Practical Guide to Coping With Cancer, I began to understand why she felt so strongly about adding this section to the book. This chapter was perhaps the most revealing and solid of them all and I would read her book on that topic.    

If Love so Nice...  is a nice little read for a little too much money but I will be keeping this one for my future teenage daughter to read.


Monday, November 28, 2011

No Stone Unturned by Rosemarie Stone

If you hate turbulence and sitting in a plane as much as I do, you probably like the distraction of a good book to pass the flying time too. For my most recent business trip to Trinidad, I opted for No Stone Unturned: The Carl & Rosie Story by Rosemarie Stone and found it to be no less a guilty pleasure than the Essence and Ebony magazines I read on a previous trip.  

The Caribbean, like many other regions, still struggles with the rising rates of HIV infection. The true story of Carl and Rose vividly reveals one person's struggle with the illness and another's death. The book covers the subject matter gently but thoroughly, talking about not just health, but the stigma that caused a quiet retreat from Jamaican society. In summary, the love story is one of sickness and death, courage and strength as well as community and family.

Don't be deterred by the use of Jamaican dialect in the Table of Contents. The book is an easy read and is comprehensible by anyone who speaks the English language. You must hear this type of story from the voice of someone with HIV and Rosemarie Stone tells the emotional story well. She gives the all-revealing, honest account from the inside looking out, not the outside looking in - a perspective many can say they have concerning HIV infection but would never dare share. A Gleaner interview with Mrs Stone reveals a lot about her writing approach.

No Stone Unturned: The Carl & Rosie Story is available on Kindle and in print. Search online for your copy and explore a new world.

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Tuesday, June 14, 2011

Indigo by Beverly Jenkins: A Review

Paperback: 370 pages
Publisher: iUniverse (2000)
Language: English
ISBN-10: 9780595002023
ISBN-13: 978-0595002023
I was slightly surprised this month when Beverly Jenkin’s Indigo, a romance novel set in the 1880s and framed around the Underground Railroad, left me Google-searching her latest best-selling love stories. I’ve always considered the characters in romance novels to be pretentious and shallow, (gag me now!!!) and the storyline to be boring and predictable. My reading selections often stray from the “norm.” My older sister describes me as “morbid” because I gravitate toward books lacking a picture-perfect, story-book ending. I crave story lines as close to reality as possible, even if that reality will force me to cry, cringe, or be disgusted. For this reason, romance novels have never been at the top of my “must-read” list. Instead, I’ve been placing them in the “smut” category along with those books not even worthy of a position in my bathroom’s book and magazine basket, nevertheless one of my bookshelves. (Curious about how I define smut?? Just research Payback is a Mutha for a perfect example.) Indigo, however, is different. 

Anyone who knows me understands how much I LOVE history, especially the history of the African Diaspora, so I admit that the historical backdrop of this love story is what first piqued my interest. However, Jenkins, unlike many authors of historical fiction and non-fiction, did not bombard the reader with long-winded passages aimed at setting the scene and tone of the time. She cleverly weaved the rich historical tidbits into the narrative in a way that made me feel like I was reading a real love story, not one that Jenkins first imagined in her mind. Any woman (or gay man if you really want me to go there) who does not finish the book with a crush on Galen has some serious issues. (I seriously considered making my lovely boyfriend take a French class so that I could get an idea of how Hester felt to be addressed as petite and ma couer.) Although there were parts that could have been toned down a bit, for the sake of making the story more believable, I truly enjoyed the love affair Jenkins detailed in Indigo. I also appreciated the way she illustrated the effect of slavery and freedom on former slaves and non slaves (both black and white) through tertiary characters. 

If you have ever been curious about the Underground Railroad, I recommend Indigo. There is enough historical detail to make you want to dig a little deeper. Even if the thought of reading something with a historical backdrop makes you want to yawn, Indigo is a must-read. This is by far one of the best love stories that I have read in 10 years.

Written by Janelle Williams
Writer and Beauty/Skin Care Consultant
Sign my guest book online at  http://www.janelleawilliams.myarbonne.com/

Monday, May 16, 2011

101+ Complaint Letters that get Results by Janet Rubel, Attorney at Law

Like many of you, I have low tolerance for nonsense – especially when I paid for it.  This past Friday, I needed to write a letter of complaint.

If you are like most people me, it can be difficult to find the right words that will produce results and not just express anger. Well, in writing my recent letter of complaint, I was so angry and flustered that I looked to Google.com for a little assistance. That action introduced me to 101+ Complaint Letters that get Results. It was exactly what I needed. Reading the table of contents alone, it was easy to see why a second edition was welcomed.

Now, the book may not necessarily have the exact complaint letter you need but it will tell you how to write it. That is Chapter 1. Other chapters supply sample letters under popular categories such as health, cars, travel, computers and school. The book even covers what to do when the letters don't work and ends with resources for helping you to deal with your problem.

Written by attorney, Janey Rubel of Illinois, USA, the book is country-specific. This does not mean that it is not applicable and useful for non-Americans. The book is also a bit older but the principles taught in the book are applicable internationally and fairly timeless.

Paperback: 304 pages
Publisher: Sphinx Publishing; 2 edition (September 1, 2006)
Language: English
ISBN-10: 9781572485631
ISBN-13: 978-1572485631

Thursday, April 14, 2011

The Women Who Raised Me by Victoria Rowell: A Book Review


Paperback: 352 pages
Publisher: Harper Paperbacks (May 1, 2008)
ISBN-10: 0061246603
ISBN-13: 978-0061246609
Available online: new from US$2.55

I am one of those people the universe blessed with healthy and balanced parents. I have a loving mother and father who were high school sweethearts and who 30 plus years later still love each other. They showered me, and my twin brother and sister with affection, attention and even tough love when the situation (or our hard heads) called for it. I’m approaching 30 and my mother still threatens to beat me when I step out of line. While reading the story of actress, dancer, and foster care advocate Victoria Rowell however, I have to admit I had my jealous moments. I never before realized how much a child can benefit from having multiple influences, multiple sources of love, and multiple sources of wisdom from which to pull throughout life. In The Women Who Raised Me, Rowell painted an overly detailed picture of her life as a foster child in New England and of the women who helped her become the woman she is today.
Yes, Rowell could have toned down the details quite a bit. But it was clear that she values her childhood memories and the gifts, both physical and spiritual, she received from the women in her life and that this book has helped her chronicle them all in one place. Although the book, which is organized in chapters describing select experiences with foster parents, teachers, social workers and friends, follows no clear chronology, Rowell somehow compartmentalizes her life into snippets that sometimes leave the reader heartbroken and other times truly inspired. As a writer and journalist, I thought Rowell’s job of incorporating family records and other historical documents was a bit overwhelming at times. At certain points in the book, it seems her interest in writing The Women Who Raised Me stemmed from her quest to build her family tree or to fill in the blanks of her personal history. However, it was intriguing to learn how much we can learn from public records and how they really give us a peek into the past and a more clear view of who we are and where we fall in the history of our families.
The concept of Sankofa, meaning “it is not taboo to go back and fetch what you forgot," was one of the most powerful themes throughout The Women Who Raised Me.  To me, that was Rowell’s main purpose. She wanted to go back in time, memory and space to pick up, explore, and put together the fragments of goodness the women in her life planted within her. I think she did just that. She also opened my mind to the unique ways the universe blesses children. For me, it was with loving parents. For Victoria Rowell and countless other foster children throughout the world, it was with women who were willing to put themselves last and the greater good first. Thank the universe for the women who raised Rowell and for the families who raise and take in foster children all over the world.
– Janelle Williams
   Writer and Beauty/Skin Care Consultant
   Sign my guest book online at  http://www.janelleawilliams.myarbonne.com/





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Thursday, March 24, 2011

3. Decision Points by George W. Bush

"Darn it. He's human." That's what I thought after my first hour-long sit down with this book. My friend was right. You might have a very different opinion of this man after you've read the book.

Written around the most significant decisions in George W. Bush's political career, the "autobiography" tackles the thoughts behind big-topic events like the 9/11 attacks and his consequent decision to invade Iraq, Hurricane Katrina or the usual how he was groomed or not groomed for President and what he was like growing up type stuff. 

Being Jamaican, I can easily admit that although I lived in the United States as an adult for several years and found myself engrossed in numerous friendly political discussions during that time, I didn't have much respect for Bush or any other American President. This book, however, allows the reader to see G.W. Bush, the man... who happened to be President of the United States of America.

The memoir, if you can call it that, gives information not often known or even considered by the general public. Still, we can't ignore the fact that this book is not a tell-all from Bush. Things have been left out but I dare not say that stories have been altered. Bottom line, he beat the historians to the punch with his own account of key events in America's history. Few should be surprised if someone else may come out with their own account of Bush's presidential journey in due time... whenever due time may be.

In the meantime, Bush's book, Decision Points gives an insightful view into the life of the (or a) US President. Young aspiring politicians and historians will lose themselves in the little talked about details surrounding the major events outlined in the book. Everyone will judge Bush as both man and politician. After all, can you really separate the two? The audio version is available. This is not a full article-long review but have offered my honest review.


This is the third book of 24 non-work books that I've challenged myself to read in 2012.

Monday, March 21, 2011

2. The Immortal Life of Henrietta Lacks by Rebecca Skloot

This is the second book that I read in my 24 in 2011 mission, on the recommendation of a former colleague, Janelle. Having had extensive discussions on the book with her book club, I thought it fitting that my very skilled writer friend do this review.


As a writer and an avid reader, I’ve always believed there are certain books, regardless of the intended audience or genre, that speak to each member of the human race. Although the idea might sound lofty, if you brainstorm briefly, a few titles come to mind—the Bible, Huckleberry Fin, Tom Sawyer, and The Power of Now. Every once in a while in history, an author produces a piece of writing with a message so powerful, there’s no question that destiny played its role. The Immortal Life of Henrietta Lacks, by Rebecca Skloot, along with the story of Henrietta Lacks herself, is destiny’s latest gift to the human race. Not only was it named by more than 60 critics as one of the best books of 2010, but it was also the winner of seven literary awards, including the American Association for the Advancement of Science’s Young Adult Science Book Award.

Curious about what makes this book so special? Not only does it tell the story of Henrietta Lacks, a African American woman whose cervical cancer cells have resulted in more scientific breakthroughs than any other cells in history, but in the spirit of Women’s History Month, The Immortal Life of Henrietta Lacks also offers readers a peak at the experience of many African American and poor families living throughout the United States during the 1950s. Known by scientists and the public as HeLa, Henrietta Lacks was a poor black tobacco farmer whose cells, taken and sold without her knowledge by doctors and researchers at Johns Hopkins Hospital, helped develop the polio and HPV vaccine, cloning, gene mapping, in vitro fertilization, and much more. Through the book, written with the help of extensive journalistic-style research and countless interviews with doctors, family members, friends, and scientists, the author successfully weaves in the human story, one that’s been missing from the science textbooks and articles highlighting the importance of HeLa. Through this story, Skloot goes beyond the science and instead sheds light on the humanity, or lack thereof, that exists in the world of medicine; a world in which one woman’s cells, even long after she’s suffered what many argue are the injustices many minorities still experience today, have the power to change life as we know it.

No matter who you are, whether a woman, man, scientist, researcher, student, mother, father, brother, sister, or child, please add “Read The Immortal Life of Henrietta Lacks by Rebecca Skloot” to your bucket list. I guarantee you it’s something you won’t regret. Stay tuned for Oprah Winfrey and Alan Ball’s HBO movie version of this bestseller!

– Janelle Williams
   Writer and Beauty/Skin Care Consultant
   Sign my guest book online at  http://www.janelleawilliams.myarbonne.com/


Tuesday, March 15, 2011

Recommending a Good Jamaican Read

Regular Request: Which Jamaican book would you recommend? 
  
I heard those words numerous times studying in the United States. I lacked an answer for years but that changed last year with the introduction of Jamaica Fi Real, a book about Jamaica's beauty, vibes, culture and people. Check out the blog feature here. Every time I feel like taking a cheap vacation in my own country every time I pick up that book. It's never failed me. Don't worry about our daialect. The book is written in English (The country's official language) and is a very easy read.

Before I fell in love with books in general, cookbooks were my interest. I grew up with The Real Taste of Jamaica in my mother's kitchen cupboard. Mum knows this book by name and you should too. Jamaican food lovers all over the world have made this one of the best-selling Jamaica books. Will admit that this is an older book, but that only means that you will be getting authentic, traditional recipes.




Both of these books are available on Amazon.com. See the links below to purchase.

Buy Jamaica Fi Real Here

Buy The Real Taste of Jamaica here

Thursday, February 24, 2011

1. Eat That Frog by Brain Tracy

Book  1 of 24 for 2011 
Eat That Frog: 21 Great Ways to Stop Procrastinating and Get More Done in Less Time
Written by: Brian Tracy
Published by: Berrett-Koehler Publishers (April 9, 2001)
ISBN-10: 1583762027
Cost (Used/New): $6 - $19

*****  5 out of 5 stars

Most of my like-minded pessimists would agree that a book telling you how to do much more in less time is a joke. Right? The author realized people's need to have 5 more hours in the day and decided to monopolize on the sad, overworked hearts of the stressed out workforce by writing a book that promises to do the impossible. I mean, we work really hard as it is so we can't do any better. Amazingly, this book does just what it says it will. It gives 21 great ways to get more done in less time. The procrastination bit, well, that has a lot to do with will-power but he does give some tips on that too.

The self-help book focuses on how to maintain high work performance and maximum personal productivity by giving simple yet detailed methods for, well, being efficient. The ideas for efficiency and proper work ethics transcend your work life and can easily be applied to your personal life as well.

In his book, Eat That Frog, Brian Tracy outlines principles to practice daily until they are second nature – a part of one's personality. One you are able to create that efficient work flow, you should flow right on to your desired level of success.  It is an easy read. The audio version is available for those who would rather listen while driving. Either way, this book is a must-read.

A free resource is available to you from http://www.briantracy.com/. This may be a good way to determine if his style if good for you.

I know I said I'd read Man Vibes first but this book just popped up and I decided to read it. I am glad I did.